Don’t Settle For Crumbs


Good Morning Damsels!

This week we are going to discuss your worth! As the good book says, your worth is far above rubies. My dears, too often I see Damsels settling! But not only are they settling they are finding themselves stuck in distress  & all because they have come up with a *phenomenal reason to settle there.

*phenomenal reason read: phenomenal excuse

But ladies let me tell you a secret about settling, your desire for greater is like your hunger on Thanksgiving Day. As you anticipate the huge turkey spread, it just  grows and grows and grows with anticipation.The promise to your belly, that she will be full soon, almost makes the wait for dinner to be served unbearable! (*shivers with flashback of 3:30 pm on Thanksgiving Day 2012 when the oven was busted and we didn’t eat until 10:30pm).What if after aaaaaaalllllll that waiting, instead of having the turkey spread you dreamt about all day, you never eat dinner because you decided you’re not smart enough to sit at the table with the other people who were invited to dinner? Or what if you decided your outfit didn’t look good enough to enjoy the perfectly prepared cornucopia? Or what if instead of ever preparing your plate you just watched everyone else eat because they were already eating before you and they are doing such a good job, you wouldn’t want to copy them because you can’t figure out how todo it better or differently? Or worse, what if you settle for just saltines + peanut butter because you don’t have a culinary degree or years of experience in culinary arts to really enjoy all the notes of flavor in the cornbread stuffing.

Do you think your hunger will just go away because you ate saltine + peanut butter or watched someone else eat?Will you be satisfied with yourself if you turned & walked out the house and returned to smell the remnants of dinner but saw the dregs of the leftovers in the pan the stuffing was baked in? NAH FAM! IT DONT WORK THAT WAY!


As silly as it may sound.. Your life is Thanksgiving Day!

The turkey dinner represents your dreams + big bold goals, the hunger and rumbles in your tummy represent your ambitions, but those jank af saltines are:

that sorry job you’ve been working since the December after college that doesn’t use your degree nor your talents.|That no good boyfriend/fake 3 year long fiancĂ© with no wedding date yet|no good baby daddy you decided you had to stay with for the sake of your children.|The passport that’s growing cobwebs from lack of use|That abysmal savings account that only has $3 in it … still after 3 years.|That credit score thats still in the trash because you’re constantly late on your bills.|Years passing by without you starting your business because your don’t have the certification| Not getting your motorcycle license becuase you don’t have a motorcycle|No taking flying lessons because well you dont have a plane|No learning to ride a bike because you’re too old to learn now|Not get your gun license because you keep forgetting.

How long are you going to settle for saltines? How long are you going to settle for crumbs? Take a chance on the things that you love! The things that will bring your life fulfillment!

ARE YOU READY TO EAT?! Are you ready for your turkey dinner?!

I challenge you to take a step toward your dreams today! No matter how large or small, be intentional about moving toward your dreams! And don’t just settle or don’t just TELL yourself you’re gonna take a step ACTUALLY TAKET HE EFFIN STEP! 

& as always remember,



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